36 East Victoria St.
Santa Barbara




SERMON SUMMARY: The blessing of singleness. Really? How could that be in a culture that continually tells us that we not worth much unless we are loved by a “significant other.” Come this Sunday to discover what God says about singleness.



Single Christians living in purity and community are billboards for the sufficiency of Jesus

—Peter Hubbard



Psalm 100

Make a joyful noise to the Lord, all the earth!

2     Serve the Lord with gladness!

   Come into his presence with singing!

3 Know that the Lord, he is God!

   It is he who made us, and we are his;

   we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture.

4 Enter his gates with thanksgiving,

   and his courts with praise!

   Give thanks to him; bless his name!

5 For the Lord is good;

   his steadfast love endures forever,

   and his faithfulness to all generations.


1 Corinthians 7:7-9, 17-28, 32-35

7 I wish that all were as I myself am. But each has his own gift from God, one of one kind and one of another.

8 To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single, as I am. 9 But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.


17 Only let each person lead the life that the Lord has assigned to him, and to which God has called him. This is my rule in all the churches. 18 Was anyone at the time of his call already circumcised? Let him not seek to remove the marks of circumcision. Was anyone at the time of his call uncircumcised? Let him not seek circumcision. 19 For neither circumcision counts for anything nor uncircumcision, but keeping the commandments of God. 20 Each one should remain in the condition in which he was called. 21 Were you a bondservant when called? Do not be concerned about it. (But if you can gain your freedom, avail yourself of the opportunity.) 22 For he who was called in the Lord as a bondservant is a freedman of the Lord. Likewise he who was free when called is a bondservant of Christ.23 You were bought with a price; do not become bondservants of men. 24 So, brothers, in whatever condition each was called, there let him remain with God.

25 Now concerning the betrothed,  I have no command from the Lord, but I give my judgment as one who by the Lord’s mercy is trustworthy. 26 I think that in view of the present distress it is good for a person to remain as he is. 27 Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be free. Are you free from a wife? Do not seek a wife.28 But if you do marry, you have not sinned, and if a betrothed woman marries, she has not sinned. Yet those who marry will have worldly troubles, and I would spare you that.



Our Father,

Forgive us for thinking small thoughts of you

and for ignoring your immensity and greatness.

Lord Jesus,

Forgive us when we forget that you rule

the nations and our small lives.

Holy Spirit,

Forgive us for minimizing your power

and squandering your gifts.

Triune God,

We confess that our blindness to your glory has resulted in shallow confession, tepid conviction, and only mild repentance.

Have mercy upon us;

in Jesus’ name, amen.